Originally bridesmaids were used in the wedding ceremony as a ‘decoy’, to confuse evil spirits intent on destroying the bride’s happiness. Often they were servants of the couple.
Modern bridesmaids are seen as an integral part of the ceremony and help her in a similar way to the best man helping the groom.
Bridesmaids can be of any age. Many couples like to choose young family members to make them feel involved in the day. An older bridesmaid who is married is known as a matron of honour.
It is acceptable to have any number of bridesmaids, although the more chosen, the more cost is involved. Bridesmaids’ dresses are traditionally paid for by the groom, but today these customs are often ignored for practical reasons.
The bride has the final say on what the bridesmaids wear.
One of their duties is to carry the bride’s train if it is long, but they also help with practical issues and traditionally plan the hen party.
Superstition says that if a bridesmaid trips down the aisle, she will never be a bride herself.
Page boys and flower girls can also be incorporated into the ceremony. Flower girls walk in front of the bride, scattering flower petals, while page boys may help carry the train or carry the rings to the altar on a cushion. // My Wedding Planner
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