Don’t be embarrassed about setting up a gift list and asking for things you need. You don’t want to end up with 10 kettles and five toasters, and guests will probably appreciate a point in the right direction.
Using a gift list is only considered to be bad taste if it is forced onto guests, and is not thought to be cheeky or presumptuous.
You can either compile a list yourself, including the colour, model and manufacturer’s name for the items you want, or use the wedding list services on offer at various shops and websites.
It is tradition that the host, usually the bride’s mother, takes charge of circulating the list.
On the big day, the bride and groom are also expected to give presents to their guests.
Known as ‘favours’, the gifts can double-up as a token of thanks and an attractive table decoration.
They may be as simple as small boxes filled with sweets or sugared almonds and goody bags for children, to more unusual or personalised gifts like alcohol miniatures, small accessories or lottery tickets.
Special gifts are also given to the bridesmaids, ushers and best man by way of thanks for their hard work.
A keepsake to remind them of the day will often make a nice gift.
Traditionally, the gifts for the best man and the maid of honour will be similar but slightly more expensive than those given to the bridesmaids and ushers. // My Wedding Planner
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